Saturday 26 March 2011

Resourcefulness: The Ability to Find A Way

Knowledge they say is power, while experience is a good teacher. I recently learned a lot more about resourcefulness and 'll like to share my experience with ya'all.

Being Resourceful is the ability to think creatively, to generate ideas, and to identify alternatives. Resourcefulness is imagination, the ability to visualize how something could be achieved when there is nothing there but the vision.
To be resourceful takes self-discipline and an iron will. First, self-discipline enables the belief that there is a way to achieve the outcome. Second, it takes an iron will to ignore the naysayers, the devil’s advocates, and those who simply lack resourcefulness themselves and so have no interest in your success.
It also follows these attributes, Optimism, Competitiveness and initiative. It builds upon these attributes which reinforce each other. You need to be resourceful to take the initiative, and taking the initiative is in itself a form of resourcefulness.

Ask yourself these questions:
Is there another way to get what I want?
Is the desired result really the best result?
Who else has information that might help me?
What is something very similar to what I need that might also work?
Who is the expert in this area?
What is one more thing I can try?
What would someone I admire do in this same situation?

Don’t reinvent the wheel
Look for a solution that someone else has already created. It might be a book, a software program, or someone’s existing checklists or procedures. You can learn almost anything from a book. If there is something I need my computer to do, I immediately think that someone else may have already written a software to address it. Even if you want to re reinvent the wheel.


Leverage your network
Build and maintain a network of people you can call on for questions and support, and make sure you make yourself available to these same people when they need help from you. New networking choices like LinkedIn can be invaluable for finding more avenues and options. People from various backgrounds, fields, industries, and even age groups can provide tremendous objective insights.


Learn everything you can about how to find information
This is very important and with the aid of several search engines, this can be achieved with ease and it’s also important to know how to obtain information by narrowing down your searches.

Teach resourceful habits to your family and your team at work
If your children want to know some information, teach them how to look it up themselves, and show them reference books other than just the dictionary. When your team members come to a meeting with a problem, make it part of your company culture that they are expected to also show up with a proposed answer to that problem. Make sure that initiative is encouraged.

Resourcefulness = Necessity + Creativity + Persistence
If you’ve ever written information on a piece of paper or sold of something you really like but know that you don’t need, you can consider yourself resourceful already! We are all capable of exhibiting great creativity and persistence when something is important, so make it a point to expand and practice these skills.

The Importance of Resourcefulness
With the recession forcing us to make do with what we have, being resourceful is now a necessary skill for today's generation of leaders. It is not simply a matter of doing more with less. Rather, what's important is the realization that you can do more with less because you and your colleagues are more capable than you first believed.
Resourcefulness is not a means of coping with deprivation; it can be a virtue that opens the door to greater accomplishment. Based on my observations of what resourceful leaders do, here are some suggestions for being resourceful.
You must first start with an open mind. "Redefine the possible - Being open minded about new possibilities is critical to putting resourcefulness into action. The leader who steps up and says "yes we can do this" is one who can push colleagues to do things that some might consider impractical.

Turn innovation inward. Resourcefulness is about optimizing what you have to work with. Innovation is not just about creating something new; it also applies to making old things work better. For example, an experienced mechanic can do wonders in car repair with a combination of after-market parts and his own resourcefulness. We see this same spirit in maintenance of large facilities —  be it buildings or other specialized facilities. Those who service them may not always follow a manual; they diagnose problems and figure out what tools and materials there are at hand to fix them. Call it resourceful innovation.

Choose specifics. If you're thinking of the bigger picture in the short term, it may be tempting to consider ways to re-invent how to do things better. Adopting a realistic attitude about what you can do in the short term might be more productive. That is, think revising specific tasks as well as specific roles and responsibilities, bearing in mind simplicity and cost reduction.
Resourcefulness, while critical now, should not be reserved just for hard times. When prosperity returns, relying on one's ability to do more with existing resources and lead people to do the same will be a virtuous behavior.

Utilize your inner and outer resources, works wonders i believe.

Remember that 'The human mind is our fundamental resource'.
- John F. Kennedy

Ve a great weekend  peeps!

Tuesday 22 March 2011

The Joy of Motherhood...

There is this feeling you get when you behold or hold a new born Baby, that sweet gladness and absolute wonderment of the awesomeness of God. Peeps, you must be wondering why am talking about babies, yeah the truth is I love children…I mean who doesn’t? They are so cute when little but once they begin to grow, they become little handfuls but we still love them no matter what.

I was blessed to watch my kid sister grow from a baby to an adult that she is now.  I used to beg to change her diapers  and feed her  but my mum would only let me hold her when she was just a few months old, was just in my teens back then. But as my ‘lil sis grew older, I was allowed to rock her to sleep, and even sometimes feed her. Could remember, she would hold her tiny toes,  pull her hair and make those little noises that just makes you long to hold her more.

Mothers are special so are fathers, but there is this bond between a mother and child that no one but God understands.  Mothers are a blessing to families and loved ones, they should be loved and cherished.
God bless you mum, bless all mothers and mothers to be, and bless us too with the strength and grace to raise our kids when the time comes.

Make your mum feel special today, let ‘em know you love them, hug ‘em, pamper ‘em and spoil ‘em as much as you can ‘cos they deserve all of that and much more!
I love my mum & dad! and am grateful to have them in my life... yeah i know everyone does but we need to let 'em know how special they are to us from time to time.


Ve a grt day peeps!

Friday 18 March 2011

Nathaniel Dwayne Hale

Guess you guys must be wondering what's behind that name..he was popularly known as Nate Dogg..he was one of the pioneer Rap artist with a soulful voice who had a unique way of rapping and connecting with his fans, me inclusive.


Yes, he was that good, though he wasn't so popular but he was unique in his own way and i will certainly miss him and miss his music. Though i am a fan of rap music, Rapper's like Nate Dogg don't come by that easily...

He passed away on March 15 at the young age of 41! due to a congestive heart failure along with complications related to his previous strokes. Yes, he had a stroke before sometime in Dec 2007. Am sure his friends and collaborators like Awa, Warren G, Ludacris, Snoop Dogg, Xzibit, Erykah Badu, Ice-T, Warren G, Eminem, etc..will miss him.


My favourite album by Nate is Music & me which was his 2nd studio album, released in 2001. It's really cool and will suggest you listen to it,maybe then, you will understand why that soulful voice of his got to me and millions of other fans..



R.I.P Nate D'.














A Prayer for Japan...

Hey peeps, been a while..yeah, been kinda very busy but that ain't gonna stop me from reaching out. My heart goes out to the people of Japan...kids who have lost their parents, families who have been separated from their loved ones and rendered homeless, massive loss of resources...all, as a result of the disaster that recently struct the country.


Every now and then, we pray for peace and God's mercy upon our lives and so far God has been faithful to us. As for Japanese, the crisis that struck their country on the 11th of March is beyond what they ever imagined could happen , guess they never saw it coming. The earthquake and tsunami have caused extensive and severe damage in Northeastern Japan, leaving thousands of people confirmed dead, injured or missing, and millions more affected by lack of electricity, water and transportation. A week after the twin disasters has left more than 6,500 dead and over 10,300 missing.


Japan Earthquake 2011


What about the children that their parents and families are now where to be found? Well, i learnt that UNICEF is doing all that it can for these kids but they need support from the whole world. Let's all join hands together and reach out to Japan, they really need all the help that they can get.


If only the nuclear plant was not affected by the earthquake...that's another issue which Japan authorities are presently battling with to avert a nuclear crisis and have been on this for a week and 2 days...


There are several relief fund programmes online, though some people are actually reluctant to make any contribution because they wonder if these monies are actually been used for the intended purpose. Do bear in mind that even if this happens, you have actually touched a life or a couple of lives by reaching out with your funds in your own little way. I am certain there are other ways we can all reach out no matter how little we think it is...one of these ways is through our prayers...
Nigeria is so blessed in many ways, one of which is the fact that it is not prone to natural disasters and i pray that we don't wake up one day to an earthquake/tsunami, Amen!

Japan needs all the help it can get both from relief efforts/funds and our prayers. So many people are yet to be found, the economy has suffered a massive set back. My prayer is that God shows the Japanese & Japan as a whole mercy and also see them through these trials...Amen!

Show some luv peeps, God bless us all!

Monday 7 March 2011

Food for the Soul...

     




Some say laughter & music is food for the soul. True talk indeed! but most importantly, the word of God is the main food for the soul...

A friend of mine told me this story some days ago, this is a real life story; A guy wanted to propose to his girlfriend and decided to do that in a cozy restaurant across his street somewhere in Ikoyi. Well, guess where he hid the ring? in an apple! which she was supposed to eat! I laughed so hard till i had tears in my eyes . That got me thinking, what about if she had swallowed the ring? Then off she goes to the OR for a surgery to bring out her engagement ring! Or what about if she had bitten into the very spot where he inserted it  and ended up cracking some of her dentition?

 Well, i'm sure he had a significant reason for hiding the ring in an apple. Wonder where all the romantic ideas went, but to end the story, she was fortunate to have seen the ring before bitting the piece of apple and on his knees he went...they are both happily married now.

Also heard of a marraige proposal at a Motor park where the guy sat in the Bus, looked at his babe and said ''u go marry me?'' All join, that's the way they have chosen to express themselves, that's what makes us unique as humans, one man's poison is another man's food.

Just felt i should share this, being a good way to start a Monday morning with laughter and joy in your heart.
Take some time off to laugh, listen to whatever music you luv, a good sense of humour isn't bad at all, laughter is medicine and remember that with God all things are possible... 
Have a blissful week peeps.

Peace!

Wednesday 2 March 2011

Appreciation!

'll like to share this poem with ya'all .It's one of my favourite by William Judson Kibby, might just be a poem but i think there is a significant meaning attached to every word, pls read on...


Life's a bully good game with its kicks and cuffs-
Some smile, some laugh, some bluff; 
Some carry a load too heavy to bear 
While some push on with never a care, 
But the load will seldom heavy be 
When I appreciate you and you appreciate me.

He who lives by the side of the road 
And helps to bear his brother's load 
May seem to travel lone and long 
While the world goes by with a merry song, 
But the heart grows warm and sorrows flee 
When I appreciate you and you appreciate me.

When I appreciate you and you appreciate me, 
The road seems short to victory; 
It buoys one up and calls "Come on,"; 
And days grow brighter with the dawn; 
There is no doubt or mystery 
When I appreciate you and you appreciate me.

It's the greatest thought in heaven or earth-
It helps us know our fellow's worth; 
There'd be no wars or bitterness, 
No fear, no hate, no grasping; yes, 
It makes work play, and the careworn free
When I appreciate you and you appreciate me.

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There's a well known quote that says "A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success" and it's very true. Taking time to express our thanks to someone or to encourage them is always worth the effort.

We often don't think it's important to take the time to let people know how we feel and how much we value them - just a simple card or phone call can make a huge difference and bring encouragement to their life.

When thinking of appreciation, I'm always reminded of Dale Carnegies wisdom when he said, "One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living.We dream of some magical rose garden over the horizon - instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our window today."

I hope the verses and poetry shared here remind you to appreciate and be thankful for what you have today!
Thank God for a new month, may it be filled with blessings and divine favour for us all...


Appreciate and live each day!

Peace!